Looks like you're building a similar spec system to me.
I use the Vantage's also for my front L/R and mains stereo pair.
I've been using some Rocket speakers for center and surround duties for the last 4 years, but I'm finally in a position to replace these with an all Martin Logan center and surround set, and I've already purchased some Electro Motion R's for ceiling duties to make my system a full Atmos ready system. I'm looking at going with 4 X Motion FX2's for side and rear speakers, with a Stage or Stage X center.
As far as sound leakage is concerned, every time I've seen speakers of this quality installed professionally, there has always been a back box behind them, usually lined with some foam or a sound deadning material (Dynamat was always popular in car audio for this purpose and their home products are supposed to be just as good), so depending on whether you're at all DIY inclined or have a good carpenter, you could either build a box, fit that into the void between ceiling and floor above, then drywall over it, or have a carpenter in to do this then have the ceiling fixed afterwards. Either way, I think that when you're dealing with speakers of this quality, it's worth at least getting a price (or speaking with any friends or relatives you have with the requisite skill set). I know this is an extra expense, but it's a one off and will allow the speakers to perform optimally.
I hope this helps.
Dave